Thursday, May 18, 2017

Was Driving Ever Fun?

Cocooning at home avoids lots of the hassles of modern life - crowds and traffic high on the list. Hub and I spent the past few weeks cocooning, but now begin another travel adventure. And it starts with car travel. Driving. 

Driving almost anywhere anytime nowadays can be anything but a pleasant experience.

Decades ago a Sunday drive was a family adventure, a time to explore nature, enjoy a picnic, visit friends and relatives. Enjoyable, bucolic, fun...but was it really?

Looking back I realize it was not, at least for my family, all fun. My sister and I fought a lot in the car, and I am sure we drove my parents crazy. Luxury cars, or at least comfortable cruising vehicles, were not in my family's budget. Our cars were purchased for the lowest price, travel amenities not a priority. 

Too many people discovered the joys of escaping home. Roads clogged with eager vacationers anxious to reach their destination. Cities and states could not keep up with the demand for roads and sometimes new ones were jam-packed immediately upon opening.

Fast forward to the 21st century. The driving situation in many parts of the country has not improved. 

Hub and I took a short road trip a couple of days ago. Our saga of road obstruction is a sad one:

Ten minutes from home and before getting on the highway we were rerouted because of road construction. Creeping forward between orange triangles and flags, we lost time before finally entering the highway miles away at a different entrance.

Approaching the bridge into the city, moving trafffic slowed to a crawl. On the bridge I said to hub, "It's weird. I don't see any cars going in the other direction."

"Maybe nobody wants to go to Jersey today," was his response.

"Wait, I see a couple of cars..." and then spied the problem - an accident. Cars on our side of the bridge slowed to ogle the scene. Once past the accident, we were up to speed once again.

Stop and go traffic through the city is to be expected. Finally a sign appeared, 'Lancaster County,' and we breathed a sigh of relief. Almost at our destination. No more traffic.

I was wrong.  Like much of the country, Lancaster County PA is growing. More houses, more people, more cars, more commercial development, more retail stores, but no more roads. Suddenly an orange sign in the middle of the road announces: Incident Ahead. Then another sign: Detour Ahead. Road closed.

What the...?

Two accidents on a beautiful sunny day. No rain, no wet roads.

We inched our way through the countryside, although we could not see much because of the BFTs (trucks) in front of us. So much for pristine countryside.

And so our travels begin. 

Saturday, May 13, 2017

About Diners

Sitting in a window booth facing a friend, perusing a menu, I marveled at the variety of dishes available. The menu continued for pages – breakfast, lunch and dinner, senior specials, kid specials, daily specials, desserts, drinks. Whatever your pleasure if you searched hard enough you would probably find it on the menu.

How do they do it?

I have no idea and cannot begin to speculate.

I simply sit back, unwind, order and enjoy the atmosphere. Diner food is very good, sometimes good, rarely bad-but it does happen. A lot of offerings are old-fashioned, home-style food, although entrée-size salads and healthy options are now common. Prices are (usually) reasonable, even inexpensive, important to budget-conscious seniors. Actually, important to budget-conscious folks of all ages.

Another criteria diners are known for are large portions. Customers leaving with plastic containers of food are a frequent sight.

The first diner (shortened from train dining cars) is attributed to a horse-drawn food wagon operated by Walter Scott in Providence, Rhode Island. A few years later (1887) Thomas Buckley began mass-producing lunch wagons, and the wagons soon morphed into permanent structures.

Train-designed diners gained popularity after World War I. Production halted, however, in 1942 when the country geared up for World War II.

As the economy thrived during the 1950s, diners became a viable small business opportunity, and the eateries flourished in the burgeoning suburbs surrounding the country’s cities.

By the 1970s fast food and casual restaurants hurt diners, and many closed. But in certain parts of the country – predominantly New England and the Mid-Atlantic states – diners prospered.

Old style diners with long counters, booths and minimal decor have been superseded by establishments with large dining rooms furnished with tables as well as booths, chandeliers, decorative ceilings and wallpaper, carpeting, and bars. Diners in major population areas typically remain open 24 hours a day.

Growing up on Long Island I remember diners owned by Greek-Americans, and today menu items such as Greek salads, souvlaki, gyros and moussaka attest to that history. Depending on an area’s population diner owners are often immigrants, whether Italian, Jewish, Eastern European, and more recently Latino.

It took several minutes to decide what to order. Too many selections can make decision-making more difficult than choosing among limited options. Were we in the mood for breakfast or lunch foods? A diet special or should we splurge? An item from the main menu or senior special selections? How about a daily special?

I like to try something different, or something not eaten often, when dining out. Not wildly different – what if I do not like the dish? I would still have to pay for it. I opted for a Portobello Benedict – Portobello mushroom, eggs, hollandaise sauce, with a side of sliced tomatoes (instead of potatoes, a nod to my sort-of diet and healthy eating regimen. NO SARCASTIC COMMENTS about diet and the hollandaise sauce please!)

My friend and I enjoyed brunch, relaxing and savoring our meal, and getting some work done (the excuse for dining out – a working meal!). In the interest of full disclosure, however, I must admit my criteria for a wonderful meal is not high, especially when I am not the one cooking. I like to cook, but not all the time.

On our arrival mid-morning the diner was not busy and the waitress attentive, but by the time we left the lunch crowd began populating tables and the wait staff hustled.

Time to get home and think about preparing dinner. 

Tuesday, May 9, 2017

Not Unhappy to be Uncool, Unhip and Definitely Untrendy

Most of the time I am happy to be myself, a regular person on the boring side of the bell curve, not chic or stylish or cool in any way. I do not keep up with the latest fashion styles. I have never heard of most celebrities under 30, a very few between 30 and 50, and a handful over 50 but not yet Medicare eligible. Never into cars and not impressed by brand names and glitzy ads with skinny women wearing almost nothing, I barely remember the make of my own car. I rarely see the plays, TV shows or movies my friends discuss soon after release, eventually viewing weeks or months later. The same with food fads, hot vacation spots, kitchen gadgets, video games, and the list goes on…

This lack of up-to-date information on cultural trivia usually does not bother me. When I visit the grandkids, however, I feel as if I live in a time warp. I exist in the 20th century or maybe the early years of the 21st, moving ahead like the tortoise while the kids are hares, proceeding speedily into the 21st century. The gap widens. Often we do not meet on common ground. We are apples and oranges, a generational divide the equivalent of Venus and Mars.

Why am I thinking about this now? Because in a couple of weeks hub and I begin several weeks visiting, babysitting, and traveling with the kids. Rather than browse travel brochures, scour maps and research tourist attractions, I probably should read People and/or Us magazines, watch Entertainment Tonight, download video games on my phone, find out about the latest teen idols and listen to their music, and the list goes on…

But of course I will not. I cannot concentrate on that stuff. It is as if my brain aged and no longer tolerates the rap, rock, electronic or whatever music that blares in my sensitive ears, the vapid celebrity gossip (unless it’s about politicians), most junk food and the continuous flashing lights and whine of video games. Oh, wait, the kids whine. The games ping or ring or clatter.

On the other hand I cannot wait. I will pack sweaters for Vermont, return home and choose shorts for Florida, but probably need the shorts in Vermont and a raincoat in Florida. I have a knack of not packing what is needed as weather-wise it turns out to be colder than normal, an unusual hot spell, more humid than ever before, wet in a dry season, or find accommodations with no working air conditioning in a heat wave or no heat during an ice storm.

This past weekend I travelled out of town for a bridal shower. I checked the weather report while packing, but made the mistake of believing the report.

I dressed Sunday morning in a spring outfit and sandals and walked out the door. The weather was cloudy and cold for a May spring day, in the 40s warming to the 50s.

I had a shawl for warmth, but my feet felt ice cold within minutes. The only other shoes I had with me were sneakers. Luckily a shopping center was close by. I drove to Target and bought a pair of socks and flats, both on sale. Not my first choice, but I was in a hurry, it was Sunday morning, a lot of stores were closed, and the price was right.

Comfort before style.

I remain unhip, uncool and definitely not trendy. But before beginning my travels I think I will stop by my hair salon and browse through a copy of People magazine. 

Thursday, May 4, 2017

Toilet Paper Predicament

Articles in newspapers, online, and TV news and commentary nowadays overflow with political content. I am interested in current events – to an extent. At this time, however, my mind is overburdened with politinonsense (my made up word for the syndrome).  So it is with relief when stories about other topics, besides sports and weather, catch my eye.

One particular story made me smile. Summarizing the article:

Who: Patrons of public rest room facilities
Bureaucrats responsible for maintaining services within budget.

What: Toilet paper (TP)

Where: China, specifically a public park in Beijing.

When: Recently

Why: Two reasons: People used too much TP, and toilet paper burglars were stealing more than 30 rolls of TP every day.
Something had to be done!

How (the solution): Facial recognition software was installed and is now used to allocate specific quantities of TP (a certain number of sheets) to each patron.

A rather unique solution to a worldwide problem facing modern industrialized countries. I doubt places where the toilet paper is scratchy and rough face this dilemma. As modern technology catches up with consumer demands and TP becomes softer, smoother and kinder to the skin, this issue turns into a major problem costing individuals, companies, and countries millions, if not billions and eventually trillions of dollars.

Using more than needed in rest rooms is probably common, although I have not yet taken a survey to validate my conclusion. I can say without a doubt that countless children use a lot more than necessary, finding amusement in streaming TP rolls all over rest room stalls.

Introducing machines that electronically dispense a certain amount of TP is an interesting concept. The Chinese devices are programmed so that it is not easy eliciting more TP if necessary or desired. The machines will not issue additional TP to the same person for nine minutes after the first distribution. In case of emergency extra TP may be requested from park personnel.

The machines have received mixed reviews. Not enough TP is issued to satisfy many users. Currently one-ply tissue is used; the park plans on upgrading to two-ply, which may satisfy most consumers. Critics worry the machines may be used for more ominous purposes, such as detecting dissidents, illegal aliens, students playing hooky from school, employees ducking out of work, and uncovering other deviants.

I am not advocating utilizing similar machines in public rest rooms throughout the United States, but there are advantages: domestic manufacturers would hire lots of workers to make the machines, additional workers would be employed to install, restock and maintain the devices, and staff would be needed to dispense additional TP when necessary. A new job-creating industry demanded by consumers!

Another advantage embraces environmental benefits. All those trees saved!

A service used by every man, woman, and child regardless of age, height, weight, gender, political persuasion or any other classification. A concern everyone everywhere can rally behind.

The one tissue issue which might, finally, unite our nation.

Of course there is the question of cost – who will pay for the machines and where will the money for maintenance come from? If places providing rest room amenities such as companies, recreational areas, government facilities, retail stores and restaurants, schools, etc. install machines, the companies and organizations paying for the TP today would save lots of money. The savings could cover the cost of the machines and on-going maintenance expenses.

I might consider installing a machine in my home. Before the summer. Before the grandkids arrive…

A final note on the subject from the cast of Seinfeld in this YouTube clip Can you Spare a Square?

Sunday, April 30, 2017

Substitute Yoga Instructor

Age is a case of mind over matter.
If you don't mind, it don't matter.
- Satchel Paige

Yoga instructors are permitted vacation and sick time, and when mine took time off class was not cancelled. A substitute assumed the reins.

Over the years I observed that the style and content of physical fitness instructors varies greatly. Zumba instructors, for instance, use a mishmash of music and choreography styles. The best have dance background, and that training is reflected in their routines. Others emphasize callisthenic-type moves, and some like to jump around a lot. Most of my fellow Zumba classmates are 50+, so I suspect instructors modify accordingly.

I also take yoga, and recently drifted through a class led by a replacement teacher who was young, 30-ish, toned, tanned and trim, and wore a cute, fashionable fitted matching outfit.

The women and the couple of men in the class do NOT wear stylish coordinating clothes. We appear in an assortment of well-worn yoga pants, stretch pants, sweats, T-shirts and - the lucky ones - body-hugging tank tops.

90-year-old Great Grandma and 
her 5-year-old great granddaughter.
Youth is the gift of nature, but age is a work of art.
-       Stanislaw Jerzy Lec
The instructor started her music on low volume, smooth, calming. She opened her mat, established herself in the front of the room, and started talking in a low, barely audible voice. Afterward I was not the only one to complain she was difficult to hear.

We began with slow stretching exercises, fine for a few minutes. But as time dragged on the pace did not pick up, the exercises did not get more challenging, and the entire hour was spent on the floor.

Most of us have been taking yoga for months if not years. Why did she teach as though this was our first class, as if we never worked out or exerted ourselves before?

By the end of class it was difficult staying awake.

There was, and I am guessing here, one unfortunate logical answer. Before entering the room she was informed this particular yoga class was for seniors, old folks. She should adapt accordingly and be gentle.

Participants range in age from the 50s to 80s. We are very much alive and kicking and enjoy stretching, flexing, training and working hard to improve our bodies. Or at a minimum not lose ground. Just because individuals may be of a certain age does not mean they cannot move. Or exercise. Or sweat. Most of us are not delicate, frail creatures.

Yes we have our aches and pains. But we trod on, and, 
in the words of centenarian George Burns:
You can't help getting older, but you don't have to get old.

I wake up every morning at nine and grab for the morning paper. 
Then I look at the obituary page. If my name is not on it, I get up. 
- Benjamin Franklin 
Quiz question: Who is the old guy, hub or Ben Franklin?

Thursday, April 27, 2017


I was hacked. Specifically, my Facebook account was hacked. Emails and messages informed me of this intrusion on my life.

hack: to gain access to a computer illegally.

Fortunately posts were not deleted or unauthorized communications inserted on my timeline.

hack: to post 'Hilarious' statuses on someone’s Facebook profile.

I found no strange or comical comments added to my account. The hacker accessed my friends list and sent friend requests to everyone.

Hacking is a part of life in the electronic age. I know people who have been hacked. I know someone who had his identity stolen; it took weeks to straighten his life out. News articles inundate us with information on what hackers do, how they do it (which I do not understand), damage caused to individuals, businesses, even the government, and how to avoid hacking.

Obviously I ignored the advice.

Why do hackers hack?
Because they can.
Because it is fun.
Because money can be made off stolen data.
Because it impresses friends, other hackers and geeks, and girls (most hackers are males. Apparently only 2% of hackers are female). 
Some hackers, however, hack for positive reasons.

My tech savvy 20-something niece called me. Yes, we had an actual, person-to-person, verbal, live conversation. She told me someone masqueraded as me and reprised her on-line chat with my hacker who attempted to obtain personal information from my niece. As the discussion progressed she realized I was not the person she was chatting with and cut off the exchange.

Never having faced this issue before, I wondered: What do I do now?

I scoured Facebook and discovered instructions on how to increase account security. I changed my password and initiated additional security precautions.

Hopefully the hacking incident is over. I do not believe anyone provided personal information to the hacker believing the request came from me.

What was/were the hacker(s) objectives? Maybe credit card or bank fraud, or simply the high of screwing people.

I guess I am supposed to learn from this experience, but am not sure what the moral might be. Maybe to be more vigilant with Internet accounts and more aware when individuals ask to be my Facebook friend. Now I will check to ensure a friend request is a new one. If not, I can inform the real person they were hacked.

I was a victim of a common crime and luckily, as far as I know, nothing serious occurred. It will not deter me from continuing an online presence. I am not any more cynical or skeptical than I was a week ago, or any more pessimistic. I am an optimistic person, always have been, and after six plus decades this incident does not change my philosophy. 

I spent a couple of minutes worrying that another hacking experience might transpire with graver consequences, but did not agonize for long. There are too many other things in life to fret about that consume my time. Like what to make for dinner, if it is going to rain a lot and flood my street, what country Trump will condemn next, whether Republicans will tinker with my health care and social security, when another ache or pain will land me in a doctor’s office, if my newly planted garden will thrive, where I will buy pizza now that my favorite pizza store closed…

Life marches on. 

Monday, April 24, 2017

My Technologically Down Day

The entire day was not a bummer. I am composing this on my seven-year-old computer. The machine hiccuped and coughed continuously over the past few days, and my local Apple store nursed it back to health. Not complete health, but Mac is now in remission.

Seven years together–my Mac and me. Seven is a noteworthy number - seven colors of a rainbow, the country calling code for Russia, seven dwarfs in the Snow White story, seven continents. A long time – time lived in my current hometown and house, seven days in a week – but in the life of electronic gadgets it is a lifetime. A long, old age lifetime.

Unsuccessfully dealing with computer glitches landed me at the Apple store. Hub and I bundled up on a cold, windy, wet, dreary day, fired up the car and set off on the 20-minute ride. The store is not far, but a string of traffic lights prolong the trip.

We park, the charge $5.00 for eight hours, hoping we will not need nearly that much time. We walk the long block to the store stooped forward against the wind.

Inside the brightly lit, sleek store a crew of about 15 green-shirted Apple geeks stand around, a few helping customers but most talking amongst themselves. One bright young face approaches and signs us in, his fingers furiously hitting the screen of his square, thin device. “You can sit here,” pointing to a couple of high stools under a counter at a table in the back of the store, “a technician will be with you shortly.”

I take out my computer, charger, and backup device. In a few minutes another young, fresh-faced geek appears, “Hi, I’m Arthur. Can you tell me what the problem is today with your computer?”

“I’m having a number of issues. It takes a long time to start up, the battery doesn’t last very long, and it stalls while using some apps.”

“OK, well let me run some diagnostics. It is an old machine, you realize, and I must tell you if it is a hardware problem, Apple no longer manufactures parts for it. You would have to go to an authorized repair shop and pay for parts and labor. The closest one is over an hour away. But the good news is, if it is a software issue we can fix it here at no charge.”

Arthur hooked my machine to a gizmo and walked away. Every few minutes he stopped by and checked it, sometimes unplugging the device, restarting my machine, then starting another diagnostic.

Suddenly a message flashes across the screen, “SOFTWARE CORRUPTED.”

“OK, well then,” Arthur says, “We can restore the machine here. Then you can take it home and upload your backup data into the computer. It takes a long time, so you don’t want to stay and do it in the store.”

Arthur did what geeks do to computers while I watched. Finally done, he explained how easy it would be to install the backup.

Our Apple adventure over in far less than eight hours, hub and I drive home with our restored computer and uncorrupted software. Delighted to once again have a working computer, I plug in my backup disc, fire up the computer and sit back, waiting for the magic to occur.

Except there is no magic. Only multiple problems.

A message displays on the screen – computer software and backup software are incompatible.

Should we return to the Apple store? Neither one of us was eager to go out in the rain again.

So instead we called 800-MY-APPLE. Hub followed the customer service rep’s instructions while I stood by fuming. Then I fixed dinner, we ate dinner, I cleaned up from dinner and did laundry. Meanwhile hub, the computer, the customer service rep, and the backup “time machine” bonded.

Now all is well, but only temporarily.

My Mac’s battery is dying. The hard drive is over the hill, working on borrowed time. The machine still runs slow, but with any luck will not stall.

The good news: the fix cost nothing.

The bad news: I will need a new computer soon. I like the idea of a new machine, but do not like the idea of paying for it.

My trusty Mac hums away, hopefully lasting long enough to one day win an award as the oldest running machine taken into an Apple store. 

Wednesday, April 19, 2017

A Downside to Adding Up the Years

I vaguely remember the old folks – my parents, grandparents, aunts and uncles – sitting around the dining room table, lingering over coffee and pie while discussing their aches and pains, past and future doctor visits, and whispering when news was particularly bad.

Fast forward a few decades and the old folks are my friends and I. The scenario came to mind during a breakfast at a local restaurant.

 Every few weeks my yoga class, composed mostly of retirees, gathers for breakfast. We walk into the restaurant, still stretching and massaging sore muscles, sit around a table, a dozen or more of us, and order coffee and fairly healthy food. I don’t think anyone wants to appear a glutton and, for instance, order potatoes with their omelet–a side of sliced tomatoes will do. Work hard in exercise class; cancel the benefits with a satisfying meal. My routine, but most of my yoga friends have more motivation and willpower than I.

Conversation ensues. “Getting up early, going to the gym, sometimes I just want to turn over and go back to sleep. Not today. Looked forward to breakfast.”

“Me too, once in a while I don’t make it. But the exercise helps ward off the evils of osteoporosis, or so I’m told. Probably just another old wives tale.”

“You know what, if you don’t come every week nothing much happens. On the other hand coming religiously will not make you beautiful.”

“But not coming ever will make me stiff and fatter, I know…”

A handful shun eggs due to high cholesterol concerns. The ordering initiates a discourse on how best to lower cholesterol-foods to eat, foods to avoid, meds to try, meds to avoid…

The conversation over the course of the morning encompasses a variety of topics, from good reads to bad movies, current events and politics, kids and grandkids, holiday plans and recent travels.

Health-related issues dominate dialogue when setting a time for the next breakfast.

On the first date suggested the conversation proceeds generally like this:

“I hate to admit it and it took a long time to come to terms with this, but I have cataract surgery that day, so can we get together another time?”

“Let me see…I can’t make it either. Dentist. Need a cap.”

The next date proposed a couple of folks pipe up:

Outpatient surgery. Nothing major…”

“Follow-up from hip surgery.”

And on the third date, voices heard:

“Big day for me. Never mentioned it before because it definitely means I am OLD, but a few months ago got shingles. Mild case, but have to wait six months to get the vaccine. Marked the momentous day in red on my calendar. But I can go after breakfast. It will be a kind of celebration.”

“Hair appointment. Time to color the gray–again.”

“Since we are on the subject…any of you wear hearing aids? I know I need them but don’t want to spend the money. I’ve heard mixed things about how much they really help.”

“By the way, can anyone suggest special exercises for my arthritis?”

“I just started meds for high blood pressure. Tried keeping it down with diet and exercise, but didn’t work. Doctor said some people can’t fight genes, and aging.”

“OK, we have a date!”

“Wait, I missed that discussion. When is it?”

“Have to put it in my calendar now or I will forget.”

“I’ll remind everyone in class the week before. And the day of.”

“What’s the date? Didn’t hear it…”

“Don’t remember it…”

“Anyone see my phone?”

“See everyone next week…S**t, where did I park the car?”

Thursday, April 13, 2017

A Good Government Experience…for a change

Interactions with federal and state agencies and large corporations - paying taxes, Medicare and medical insurance processing and snafus, cable, phone and internet company hassles to name a few - get in the way of living a tranquil, laid-back life.

Dealing with large entities has become synonymous with stress.

But not all the time!

Since hub and I travel a lot, we applied for Global Entry status, a program allowing holders to sidestep immigration lines when entering the country. In the past we experienced exasperatingly long lines following lengthy flights, adding to our exhaustion and frustration. Bypassing lines, inserting our passport into a kiosk and allowed to move on is appealing.

The process seemed intimidating, however, involving interface with the largest and probably most fossilized bureaucracy on earth – the U.S. government.

The online process begins with an application fee, $100 per person. Uncle Sam keeps the dough whether or not approval is received. A risk, but I was optimistic we would be granted Global Entry status.

Hub and I filled out forms and waited. Pre-approval meant progressing to the next step, a personal interview. Most interview site locations are airports, with a handful at government offices scattered throughout the country and abroad.

Pre-approval came via email less than two weeks later. We immediately logged into our accounts to set up an appointment at the Philadelphia airport, closest site to our home.

Viewing the interview schedule proved discouraging. The only slot available for the next two months was 4:00 p.m. the following Saturday afternoon. We went for it.

Hub signed in immediately, and then as I tried to log in a message appeared stating the slot was unavailable.

Now what?

We were not going to forfeit hub’s interview. I called and asked if I could possibly get an interview at around the same time. The agent, not supportive, reluctantly stated I could come in and see what happens. 

No traffic hindered our one-hour drive to the airport. We found our way to the customs office, pressed the intercom button and stated the reason for our visit. The door magically unlocked.

Aside from being very cold, the waiting room was not crowded and individuals were summoned steadily. We arrived early, leaving plenty of time in case we got stuck in traffic or could not easily locate the office, and were ushered in for an interview before the assigned time. Explaining our situation, the immigration officer readily took care of both of us.

Personal information verified, picture snapped, fingerprints taken, and we were done.

An added bonus with Global Entry is TSA pre-check with most airlines.

Courteous, accommodating officials, escorted in to the appointment early, completed in a timely manner, willing to work with both hub and me – government at its best!

There is hope for the future after all.

Global Entry status is good for five years. We trust the program is not cancelled before then. 

Friday, April 7, 2017

Reflections on the Position of President of the United States

                  As of April 6, 2017 - 1,306 Days Until the Next Presidential Election

 Since there are only 1,306 days until the 2020 election–three and a half years, a long time or a short interval depending on your views of the current POTUS–it might be time to begin evaluating candidates for that austere position.

But it is too early for me to speculate on Democratic candidates. Hillary and Bernie will be over the hill, in my opinion, although my feeling that Hillary’s baggage would preclude her from running in 2016 obviously was not heeded. Another important but often-overlooked reason neither Bernie nor Hillary would have won is because both are too short. Bernie is somewhere between 5”8” and 5”11” and Hillary is 5’5”. Recent Presidents have been tall: DT is 6’2”, Obama 6’1”, George Bush 5’111/2 ”, Clinton 6’2”, George H.W. Bush 6’2”, Reagan 6’1”, Carter only 5’91/2”, Ford 6’, Nixon 5’111/2”, Johnson 6’3”, Kennedy 6’ – there is definitely a trend here.

The Dems need new, youngish, tall fresh faces. One of my state’s senators (NJ), Cory Booker (6’4”), is making a name for himself, but will the country elect another black man so soon after Obama?

A female dynamo around a long time, California’s Diane Feinstein, is too divisive. I did not know she is, well, quite mature – 83. Cross her name off the 2020 list. On the other hand the junior CA senator, another Democrat, Kamala Harris (5’4” – may be a problem), is only 52. I know nothing about her.

I heard Colorado’s Michael Bennet (height unknown) on TV discuss the Gorsuch hearings, and he impressed. He is only 52 (age here being a relative term; after all, the President must be at least 35 years old). No Coloradan has been President. And he is not bad looking. All good reasons to consider him...but enough about the Democrats. It is reassuring to realize, however, there are potential candidates in the wings. Whether they are good aspirants or schmucks*, research and time will tell.

The current POTUS will be 74 when 2020 rolls around. But more important, First Lady Melania will be 50. Will POTUS stand for a First Lady of such vintage?

If DT decides to opt for trophy wife #4, I am sure his admirers will forgive a divorce. After all, they did not mind that he already suffered through two. As for all those other women sexually harassed by the POTUS, his followers will forgive. Again. And again. And again...We are all familiar with the infamous tape putting the lie to DT’s denials of sexually harassing women. He is an inveterate cheater, invoking the Fifth Amendment 97 times during divorce proceedings from his first wife (Ivana) when questioned about relationships with other women.

But let us not overlook the fact that the POTUS is a magnanimous, forgiving soul and good friend. On Bill O’Reilly’s recent indiscretions, or rather the publicizing of his transgressions, DT said in an interview with The New York Times, "I think he’s a person I know well. He is a good person...I think he shouldn’t have settled. Personally, I think he shouldn’t have settled. Because you should have taken it all the way. I don’t think Bill did anything wrong."

After all, the POTUS is such a romantic. Commenting on his second wedding (to Marla Maples) he said: “I was bored when she was walking down the aisle…I kept thinking, ‘What the hell am I doing here?’”

I would LOVE to hear what DT's two ex-es have to say. Unfortunately their stories are unavailable due to confidentiality clauses in divorce decrees. Speak and ye shall lose your $$. Not that they get oodles of money, due to prenuptial agreements, but a check in the mail occasionally for a million pays the rent. And food bill. And some entertainment. And travel…but I guess only if carefully disbursed.

Ladies, should you need help, in a previous life I was a financial geek. Call me…

DT will be the Republican Presidential candidate in 2020, assuming he is alive, breathing, and not impeached. In his own words from a 1990 Playboy magazine interview:

The show is "Trump" and it has sold out performances everywhere. I've had fun doing it and will continue to have fun, and I think most people enjoy it.

Meanwhile…in small offices and large corporations around the world writers and publishers huddle over laptops, furiously updating children’s books about the Presidents to include #45. I wonder what fairy tales will be spun to make DT’s story G-rated.

* schmuck - a Yiddish word with a common understanding today of someone who is on the stupid side of the intelligence spectrum, perhaps obnoxious, difficult, a jerk. Original, literal meaning of the word is penis.